While on a short vacation in Brussels with a group of friends from Singapore, we chanced upon a street with several restaurants or cafes selling seafood. Remembering that that place is quite famous for its mussels, we decided to find the restaurant with the best deal to try the delicacy.
As we walked down the street, we were constantly interrupted by waiters from different restaurants. With bright smiling faces, they shoved menus into our hands and guaranteed us the best offer in town. We eventually decided on one and happily went in to find a seat. Being on a budget trip and just wanting to sample the food, we intended to order one set meal for every two people. However, when we read our orders to the waiter, he sternly said, “That’s all?! How about you…you..you?” When we told him we were going to share, he loudly exclaimed, “NO NO no…no such thing!..” and he subsequently chased us out of the restaurant, creating quite a din since we were quite a large group.
After what seemed like an attempt to humiliate us, we proceeded to find another restaurant and made sure to specify that we were going to share food. We did find one eventually and enjoyed our time still.
The reason I said “what seemed like an attempt to humiliate us” is because my group of friends and I found the situation rather amusing instead. Of course, we couldn’t help but feel indignant initially but it quickly wore off.
I think one major source of conflict was the language barrier. While the waiter could speak English, his understanding was minimal so it was difficult for us to communicate with him from the beginning. The waiter probably became irritated when we had to ask several questions about the menu because it was in French. Another source was probably the wrong assumption we had that Cafes in Paris and Brussels operated in a similar manner (wouldn’t mind us sharing food). Perhaps what we thought looked like a cafe was in fact a more formal restaurant (where it would be poor etiquette to share food). Or was it the restaurant’s attempt to get more money out of us?
Wells, at least now we know what to do should we enter another restaurant in Brussels 🙂